No easy answers here, in my book. Read the old thread and one guy summed it up best (I think)when he said you better choose a job you love, no matter what. I agree. Life is too short to spend all those hours toiling at something you hate, just so you can get some extra stand time.
Self-employment can be cool (I am), but it has drawbacks, too. Yes, in some jobs you get to dictate the schedule, but not if you're a service provider (my cousins and buddies are all self-employed builders and tradesmen). And remember, the minute you stop working, the dollars no longer come, and no one is getting your work done while you're playing. Plus, there's insurance and other big bills to pay, and that money comes out of your pocket.
That said, I'm a self-employed writer and I love my job. I get to see my wife and kids alot, I write about stuff I love to do (hunting) and I do dictate my own schedule, within reason. If its November, my butt's in a treestand...though I might have to come home and write til 1 a.m. to pay for my sins /forum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif
There's a lot to be said for having at least some freedom in the fall. I used to be a teacher, and I loved it...except on those November mornings when a monster buck would chase a doe in front of the truck I was driving to ride herd over a bunch of pimply-faced 7th graders who didn't wanna be in my class. I swear, when one of those kids would whine "Mr. B., when are we ever gonna use this stuff in real life?" it was more than I could take. So tempting to say "Know what? Never! Class dismissed" /forum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif