I have a 15-30 minute drive.
As far as a wife with kids I have a great one also. The only thing I will add is compromise in season also. We have a 6 year old, 5, and almost 2. I would love to get a chance to hunt Halloween night, but that is reserved for them. the wife always takes a 3 day shopping marithon with her mom an aunts the 2nd weekend in november. I just add those days into the hunting vacation and I stay at home with the kids, even though it is "primetime" In return she holds down the fort the rest of the hunting seasons, with only minor complaining, like, "What is your problem, why can't you get one".