nannyslayer
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Praying that you beat it's butt!!
Listen to me about this as I have experienced the same devestating news. The first few days of fright are the worst you will proably experence. After 2 biopsies, 6 months apart in 2010, I was told that I have prostate cancer. Even though we were kind of expecting this pronouncment it is still a shock and very scary. Since then I have had surgery to remove it and then 35 radation treatments and am now taking hormone treatments every 4 months and am currently in remission, thankfully. Get yourself as much information as you can before making any real important decission with your doctor. The Amercian Cancer Society web site is a great place to start. It will give you a different out look rather than the fears you are now experiencing. Talk to the doctors from an informed position and you are more likley to get much more honest and realistic answers. Before you decide on a course of action, I would also highly recommend getting another opinion from Mayo Clinic in Rochester Mn. I went there after the local surgeon failed to get all the cancer because it had moved outside of the margins of the prostate glan. They are great there and set me up with a radiation treatment program and helped make it possiible for me to stay there for the time of those treatments. There is some discussion as to whether they are #1 or #2 in the nation for cancer treatment, but either way they are great. This cancer tends to migrate around the body and after finding a couple of spots through a bone scan, Dr Choo decided to begin hormone shots. After the second shot 4 months apart those spots faded and were undectible, so I am offically in remmision as of now.
Please know that your diagnosis is not an actual death sentence! There are wonderful doctors and medical teams that are advancing their knowledge and treatment options everyday. There are many suvivors out there and you will be among them soon. Just after my surgery some women who were cancer surviors gave us a white board thing that they have painted different imspirational quotes on and I look at it everday in our kitchen. Two of these quotes are especially important to me, "Feed your faith and you fears will starve to death" and from Abraham Lincoln " It is not the number of years in your life that count, it is the life in your years". Another dear person gave another quote from Lincoln, " I have been driven many times down upon my knees by the utter conviction that I had no where else to go". Prayer can really do wonderful things so wrap yourself in it and what ever the course ahead you will be much easier to live through. :way:
If there is anything else I can tell you about or recommend to you just send me a PM and I will try to help. Best of luck and life to you!
PS: on a good note, I did take advantage of the weather and needed to clear my head a little today. So I went to my happy place (a tree) and killed me a tiny doe!
Hang in there man. They can work wonders with it nowdays.Thoughts and prayers are sent.Now go shoot a big 'ol buck and congrats on the doe
That my friend is a ton of information and help. I thank you and will more than likely be contacting you after my meeting with the surgeon later this afternoon.
You are right about the fear, I'm scared to death right now because I have NO clue what I'm in for yet. These last 4 days have not been pleasant, but with my wife's support have been much better than it would have been without her. I just want to get tomorrow over with so I know where I stand.
And thank you to all who have included me and my family in your prayers.
PS: on a good note, I did take advantage of the weather and needed to clear my head a little today. So I went to my happy place (a tree) and killed me a tiny doe!
Craig,
I completely forgot that there is a Mayo Clinic in Scottsdale. That's halfway between here and Tucson. Your son and I can meet you there and trek off into the Tonto National Forest in between treatments and chase desert muleys, javelina, quail, etc. I'll even give you first shot on all game!
You continue to be in our prayers and you will beat this!!
Haha, that's awesome Brian!
Great news today. The cancer has not spread to my lungs. This was my biggest fear. Thank god for that. Surgery is tentatively set for November 4th. Cant wait to get this shit out of me.