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Yesterday my best friend/mentor/hunting partner/father nearly lost his life to a blood clot. He had a massive stroke leaving him without the use of his right side and the ability to speak. I am not looking for sympathy here, maybe just a few prayers from some other great hunters. My father taught me the greatness of the outdoors when I was very young and we continue to share this passion with my two sons. My 16 year old son, who my father was with when he shot his first deer, said to me yesterday after seeing his grandpa, that he will never hunt again if he cannot hunt with his grandpa. At this point I feel exactly the same and don't care if I ever step foot in a tree stand again. This is about the worst day in my life..
My father and I spend countless hours each deer season together and have always lived close by one another. 13 years ago my father moved nearly an hour away, my family and I followed and moved a mile away right around the corner in the country. Then 5 years ago when my son was paralyzed we moved to a new town. A year later dad and his wife followed. He is always there for me, he is the epitome of what a father should be. I only hope I can be half the man he is. He has taught me so many things in life and has more energy than many his age. This summer one of my big garage doors blew off during a thunderstorm, a couple days went by and here he comes. He says lets get this thing rebuilt. So in the next few days we had a new frame and new door built. He has never been able to just sit by and not do things. He has been a Caterpillar mechanic all his life, I dont think there is anything he doesn't know about a tractor. He is a collector of Minneapolis Moline tractors and just loved to fix them up. Just the other day he got a call about an MM from a guy in Texas wanting to know how to fix his. He said he couldn't find anyone down there that could answer his question and knew dad would have the answer. This man knows so many people its just unbeleivable. We had several rooms full of people at the hospital yesterday and today,the support was truly amazing. 5 years ago dad became friends with an old farmer from Neola, Iowa. This man is 78 years old and has never let anyone hunt his property due to the lack of respect his property was shown. One day he was talking to dad about deer hunting and offered his place to my dad! Dad jumped at the chance, he knew what this place looked like and everyone in the area knew this place was OFF limits. Dad goes in there and did a little scouting one day and found a place he liked. The next weekend shotgun season opened up. We did not hunt this place opening weekend. But dad was there in the middle of the day on Monday. Later that night around 6 pm I give dad a call to tell him about a monster that I had been hunting for the last 3 years was dead, by someone else unfortunately. Dad listens to me brag about the size of this thing and how upset I was then says, wait till you see the monster 18 pointer I just shot! I freaked out and immediately drove to his house to meet him. A monster it was, a 181 Nontypical. Definitely an awesome looking deer. How can life be so cruel? It is so unfair. Definitely a sad sad day for many
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Thanks for lisetening and God bless all. And thank you dad for always being there for me! Some of you may know him, his name is Ed Thomas from Persia, Iowa.
 
Well I will say you are a very lucky man. So many of us grow up through our child without a father that liked to hunt or parents grow apart and dad being a single parent loses sight of just spending time with his son means to him.
All is not lost it sounds like your Dad has touched many lives. I have never met the gentleman but it sounds like I have missed something in life. Wish I had a old tractor I guess.

Sounds like your dad ended a great hunting season, and we need to see pics of that monster.

Prayers are with you and your family at this time and good luck next season with you and your hunting partner

Steve
 
Sounds like an awesome man. I bet there still will be many stories told. He may not be there with you physically but he'll always be there with you. My dad has been gone for 18 years and I still feel closest while I am out in the woods.
 
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Like Rudd I lost my father nearly 15 years ago...so when I read your story I know how you feel.

No other time in my life have I felt such a sense of loss.

I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers...
 
Thats too bad. In times like these you really figure out what is important and how much people mean to you. My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
my thoughts and prayers are with you an your family.
no matter what he will always be there to share the woods with you.
 
Sounds like your Dad is a Man among men. We will lift his health and your family up to the Father. Thank you for sharing this need and keep us posted.

MO
 
My prayers are with you and your Family.I lost my father when he was 47. He and I hunted, trap and did everything together. He was able to see his first grandson born and died 6 months later. I gave up trapping (because it just wasn't the same without him) but when my oldest son was old enough and I started telling him stories about when we trapped together, my son told me that he wished his grandpa was alive to show him how to trap. At that moment I started to trap again only because I know my Dad would have been upset with me because he wanted the next generation to learn what he had taught me. Regardless of what happens with your dad, remember he will/would want you and your son's to carry on the life style he showed you.
God bless
 
I said a prayer for your father. It sounds like you have been blessed with a wonderful father and family. Your father installed the hunting heritage in you because it was important to him. Even though it might not feel right at first, you should strive to carry on the legacy that he started and spend every second that you can in the woods with your children. Godbless! We will continue to pray for your family.
 
I lost my Dad 6 months ago and he was also a great mentor/friend/partner....ect.
Hang in there and dont give up hope.
My thoughts and prayers are with you an your family.
 
My father passed when I was 30. I still miss him now in my 50's. I know I will see him some day. You still have your dad with you. We should thank GOD for every day of life. I will keep you in my prayers.
 
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I lost my father when I was 18 (I'm now 41). He introduced me to hunting but I never got the chance to experience much with him but my passion has only intensified. I'm sure he is very proud of that as your father always will be for you as well. Never let the passion die! God Bless!
 
First off I would like to thank everyone for their support. After reading many of your posts I realize I have been VERY lucky to have my father with me as long as I have and to be such great friends. Thank you! Heres an update on his condition since his stroke on Wednesday morning. He has progressed somewhat and is trying very hard to speak to us. Yesterday he said his first words to my wife. He told her "bye" and "I know". He has not been able to move his right leg and occasionally moves his right arm. He cannot swallow as of yet but the doctor is confident he will regain this and his speech. He will be moved to a rehabilitation hopsital in Omaha by Tuesday. Once again everyone, thank you for your support and kind words. Here is a photo of the 181 inch 18 point nontypical buck he shot. dads deer
 
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