SmokePole: Our situations are very similar it would appear.
We have 6 that always hunt together. 5 are family, My wife, sister, Dad his current wife one of my best friends (Dad likes him to or he wouldn't be around) and myself. We have been invited to hunt the same ground for 5 years and ALWAYS have a meeting the night prior to plan it out. How long will you stay in your spot, who will walk where, ect.
To me, the most enjoyable part is just being with the friends and family. Not filling the tags. This is the first year that we didn't get them all filled. Partly due the fact that where we did hunt after being invaded my the 20 asswipes from Des Moines the deer where so spooked once you stepped into a draw or tree line, they friggin bolted.
Shit happens. I still had an awesome time. The ladies all shot deer, two really nice does and my wife took her biggest buck!!!!! She kicks ass with her 1100 12gauge. Even though I have to buy her Youth camo clothes! Classic. To us, a deer is a deer. It is about the hunt first. the kill is way down on the list.
We love to take big does, some of the best damn eating on the planet. I will search for does again during anterless time. Also have a doe tag for my bow, as does pappy.
The spousal unit and I were able to get out for a couple of hours this week each day. We finished up the season last night by seeing 9 deer total, 5 bucks, one INCREDIBLE bad boy. I had a shot at about 125 yards that didn't connect so for the first time since in years, I didn't fill my tag.
Big deal! last night, we grilled the tenderloins from my wifes buck, enjoyed a fire and Merlot and couldn't believe what a great time we had.
Then, we started talking about going out again, after more does.
I can't wait.